![]() On the whole, our relationship is very healthy and I’ve met his friends/family and vice versa. I’m wondering if he’s trying to appear single or protect someone’s feelings or if there’s some other factor? Normally I feel pretty secure in my relationships and I feel a bit silly even being concerned about this, but it has really thrown me. Over the past year, politics has been very present. It’s important that we are able to remember who votes to put politicians in office and who keeps them there. I don’t know if I’m reading too much into it or being too needy/insecure but it’s starting to feel a bit off to me. The idolization of politicians and use of social media to more effectively connect and interact can be damaging for their constituents. He has said previously that he didn’t want to “show me off”. But it’s been quite a few months now and he still hasn’t. We’ve spoken about this a few times now and I’ve explained to him how it makes me feel, and he listened and said he understood and he would do a post. We’ve been living together happily for the past 6 months in covid lockdown, and he’s posted more about his friend he’s seen twice than me. If he was clearly just not into “pda” it wouldn’t bother me, but because he was so happy to post about his previous partner it makes me feel really insecure. A lack of transparency in any relationship only leads to suspicion, self doubt, insecurities. Both of you should have each other passwords, nothing should be hidden from each other. Both you should be completely OPEN with each other. ![]() It bothers me that if someone looked at his Instagram they would only see loved-up couple pictures of him with his ex, and it would appear as though he was either single or still with her. Tell him that his refusal to acknowledge your relationship makes you feel uneasy about the relationship. In this case, my partner posts on social media a lot, has loads of pictures of his ex and he’s on instagram very very regularly. I know this has been asked about a lot (I know because I’ve already checked for answers.) However, normally the situation is that the partner rarely posts on social media, or is private about their relationships etc. My boyfriend (40) never posts any pictures of me (f, 29) on social media, we’ve been together for 2 years. ![]()
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